
In the latest episode of the PGA Players' Podcast, host Aaron Goldberg sat down with world-renowned mental performance coach, Brian Cain, to discuss the processes, frameworks, practical habits and mindsets that PGA Pros use to reach the true elite level... and then stay there.
On the PGA Tour, talent is your entry pass, but process is what keeps you there. As Brian Cain says, “Your process is working perfectly for the results you’re getting.” Talent brings you to the table, yet the architecture of success—deliberate routines, values-defined decisions—calls for a personal operating system as rigorous as a top-tier front office. The difference between fleeting success and generational legacy is integration.
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Brian shared his MVP framework that he uses to build elite level performance in the athletes he works with. The MVP process stands for: Mission, Vision, Principles. Begin with your mission—what you would engrave on your gravestone, transcending stats and trophies. Vision is what do you want in your resume? It's concrete: tournaments won, years on tour, dollars earned. But it can also be bigger picture: lives impacted, people mentored and helped. And then Principles—three to five carefully chosen values—guide every pivotal decision.
Vitor Belfort, UFC world champion that Brian worked with, captured it: “A man makes decisions out of principle, and a boy makes decisions out of preference.” Athletes list ten to twenty core values, trim them to essentials, and use this shortlist as a compass. On the course, with this foundation, identity cannot be shaken by leaderboard swings or criticism. The same discipline grounds families who weather the storms of public scrutiny and changing markets; the MVP process is as essential to stewardship as it is to the golf course.
For Brian, structure and process is key. Champions map out ideal days using Cain’s “hourglass model”—taper attention inwards for each task, execute, then transition intentionally out. AM/PM routines anchor performance: digital detox before bed, blue light blockers, visualization, and planning. No phones in bed; lay out clothes for tomorrow. After competition, remove your uniform, shower, and journal—rituals that signal the mind to move out of competition mode and into recovery or family time.
Matt Carpenter, three-time MLB All-Star, reflected, “I wish I knew how to turn it off earlier.” Recovery demands discipline. Brian told us how physical triggers can help drive healthy transitions: Kevin Roy’s glove becomes the on/off switch for focus, snapping mental reset into reality. These habits stack, freeing mental bandwidth and making high performance sustainable.
In championship teams and flourishing families, measurement is stewardship. Cain’s Four Step Player Development Formula:
Set intention: Define MVP and set clear quarterly goals.
Schedule it: Shared digital calendars, just like a sophisticated family office—so the whole team moves in sync.
Measure it: Use a “success checklist” (HabitShare, paper, or app). Each daily check confirms alignment with core behaviors: nutrition, recovery, drills, journaling, sleep.
Reflect and refocus: Weekly huddles with coaches/family; assess “well, better, how” to adapt, reinforce, and bridge gaps.
“Where fulfillment comes from is when what you do in your life is in alignment with what you want for your life.” The success checklist is not just behavioral analytics; it’s your live dashboard—are you stacking days, or coasting on preference?
Sustained achievement—on the course or as a 100-year family—demands identity before results, routines before improvisation, and reflection before repeating. As your family office, AWM Capital coaches your family like a champion: integrating tax, investment, and stewardship so you win across generations.
No pro builds alone. Stack habits, track what matters, live your MVP—because in sport and legacy, every day shapes the next century.

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